Being noisy is not always the sign of the wisdom

 Some cases, people carry generation fears for decades and some cases even for more than a 100 years.

Those people, who manage to settle down, and get education, than good jobs, they are super comfortable in Denmark. But their life is not perfect, they live in the prison of their fears.

What is that?

I took this picture in the Design Museum of Denmark in Copenhagen on the weekend.

Credit: @Melinda Erika Dothan

True integration requires healing from past trauma rather than forcing rigid conformity on the next generation. This post reflects on family legacy and Danish assimilation, advocating for a parenting style rooted in emotional freedom over strict assimilation.

Like they will be humiliated, they loose their social status and similar...

So a lot of people, who once came from families with challenges... those people became super masking people. It means, they wish to erase the history of their family... anything that can give a feeling of the humiliations.

What did my grandmother did?

She continued to use German words with mixed Hungarian words.

She always told us, how it was during the WWI and WWII.

And everyone know stories like that, and a lot of people push down those memories. 

Usually, when they get into the pensionist house, they get demented and without any control it comes out before they die...

I think it is better to heal much before.

When I teach my kids how to use a tent, it is a way to teach them to be relaxed, adventurous, learn new skills, and do not be afraid from stories, when someone says, they lived in a tent.

Like, when I was a child in the primary school, we had kids from the circus. It was very useful, as we could get inside stories from the Tivoli.

What does it mean to have German passport in Denmark?... my kids did not get accepted in the German school.

What does it mean to have Israeli passport in Denmark? ... my kids did not get accepted in the Jewish school...

What does it mean to have Hungarian passport in Denmark? ... I was called Spanish for years....

My uncle was born in Hungary and he is Baron of Georgia. 

He got his noble title back from the Spanish king, and the location was in Portugal.

My family is much more complex....

But most of the people erase their awareness... they became pretty xenophobe...

Yes, even countries, that are famous about migration, the second generation people are 90% xenophobe...

It means, they have serious problem with people who are form other lands...

It happens, as they were forced aggressively to integrate... by their first generation parents...

So, I do not do this.

We freestyle.